Washington DC/Northern Va.
Dominatrix-Kink Coach-BDSM Educator-Temptress
Proper Protocols
Protocols:
These protocols are in place to ensure clarity, respect, and a seamless experience from first contact through your session.
Rules in My Kingdom:
Please read in full before booking.
Before Booking:
Before booking an appointment, it’s important that you take the time to read as much of My website as possible so you can better understand who I am, what I offer, and My style of domination.
Required reading includes this page in full (Proper Protocols), My Sessions page, which goes over My donations/rates, what I offer, and what I do not offer, and My Contact page, which explains the three easy booking steps on how to make a reservation with Me, along with My schedule, location, and other important information.
Booking an appointment does not need to take a long time. Following the booking instructions located on My Contact page should take no more than 10–15 minutes.
Undecided:
If you’re not 100% sure you’re ready to book an appointment, it’s important to understand that My time is valuable.
As a professional with over two decades of experience, this is My career and something I have a true passion for. I am good at what I do, I love what I do, and authenticity is very important to Me.
If you are unsure whether you would like an appointment with Me, I offer a variety of consultation and meeting options that can be found on My Sessions page.
Whether you prefer a virtual meeting, phone consultation, coffee meeting, lunch meeting, or dinner meeting, you will find that I offer different ways for us to become acquainted before committing to an in-person session, if that is your preference.
Ready to Book an Appointment:
If you know that you’re ready to book an appointment, make sure you follow My booking instructions located on My Contact page.
There are three easy steps that should not take more than 10–15 minutes. Being able to follow simple instructions lets Me know that you are genuine, sincere, and respectful of My time.
If you are unable to follow My booking instructions, I will not consider you for an appointment. Following simple instructions is the first step in showing that you are serious about booking and respectful of My process assuring that we will have an exceptional session.
The Next Steps:
Now that you’re ready to book an appointment and have reviewed the Contact page of My website, the most important next step is completing My questionnaire.
I am the only person who reviews your questionnaire, and questionnaires are automatically deleted after your session.
Because I do not retain client information for discretion purposes, there may be times when I request that previous clients complete the questionnaire again, if it has been awhile since you have last served Me.
This allows Me to have the most current information and properly understand your interests before moving forward.
After You Have Filled Out the Questionnaire:
I am one of the very few professionals who requires a phone call in order to book your appointment.
I do not book appointments over text message or email with new clients or infrequent clients.
If you are unsure what an infrequent client is, this is someone who has not seen Me regularly or someone who may need to be reacquainted with Me before booking.
If I do not remember you, please do not attempt to book an appointment over email or text message. You will need to follow My booking process again so we can properly reconnect and I can understand your current interests and expectations.
Text and email booking is typically reserved for My regular clients in good standing as well as My VIP clients.
As indicated in My booking steps, you will be required to call Me between My phone hours of 12 PM–10 PM to make a reservation.
Before You Call:
After completing My questionnaire, you will receive an automated message and email with instructions on how to submit your $100 Introduction Booking Call fee.
A $100 Introduction Booking Call fee is required for all new clients or infrequent clients who need to be reacquainted with Me in order to book.
This fee goes toward your session total and is not an additional fee.
This payment is accepted via Venmo or Cash App. (This information is instantly sent to you after you fill out the questionnaire). Make sure you have cash app or Venmo downloaded. Read further below in the event you are unable to do this.
The purpose of the Introduction Booking Call fee is to ensure that you are genuinely calling with the intention of booking an appointment. This allows Me to dedicate the appropriate time to reviewing your questionnaire, discussing your interests, and preparing for our session.
When calling, please let Me know upfront whether you are calling for an Introduction Booking Call or a consultation.
Please understand that these are two separate services.
The Introduction Booking Call is for clients who are ready to book an appointment, and this fee is applied toward your session total.
A consultation is for those who would like to speak with Me before deciding whether they would like to schedule. Consultation fees are separate and are not applied toward a future session.
If you have any questions regarding anything, do not hesitate to email Me at mindyourdomme@gmail.com
Retainers & Booking Structure
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Retainers are required to secure all appointments and reflect the time, preparation, and commitment involved.
Your $100 Introduction Booking Call fee is automatically applied toward your retainer.
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1 Hour Session – Full payment is required at the time of booking to confirm and secure your appointment.
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90 Minute Session – 50% retainer required at booking.
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2 Hour Session – $200 retainer required at booking.
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3 Hour Session – $300 retainer required at booking.
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Extended Sessions – Confirmed during the booking call.
All retainers are applied toward your session total.
Now That You Have an Appointment:
Now that you have committed yourself to Me, it’s important that you understand the following.
1. After we get off the phone and your appointment is booked, you will be responsible for paying the remainder of your retainer immediately. Your $100 Introduction Booking Call fee goes toward your retainer.
Failure to comply with this policy will result in losing your time slot along with your Introduction Booking Call fee, as well as the possibility of being banned or BLACKLISTED.
If you are unable to pay your retainer immediately, communicate with Me and let Me know the time that you will be able to complete it.
2. In the event that you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment, please provide at least 48 hours notice.
When proper notice is provided, your retainer will go toward your rescheduled session, and you will have up to 7 days to reschedule your appointment without having to repay your Introduction Booking Call fee.
I only allow one reschedule.
3. If you cancel without 48 hours notice, you are responsible for paying for your session in its entirety.
I understand that emergencies occur and unexpected things happen. If something comes up and you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment, please let Me know as soon as possible.
However, canceling without the required 48 hours notice makes you responsible for payment of your missed appointment.
I will allow up to 14 days without any additional fee's.
Please keep in mind that canceling without a full 48 hours notice, whether you are able to reschedule or not, still means you are responsible for the full session payment.
I only allow one reschedule.
4. I typically request that you send Me a text message two hours prior to your appointment time.
If you are further than two hours away from Me or if you are traveling, I may request that you communicate with Me the evening before or earlier.
This is the time when I will provide My address and directions. (Do NOT ask for My address or detailed location information prior to this, My contact page clearly states My general area).
5. Because My dungeon is located in a private location, I do request that you arrive appropriately dressed.
You do not want to be too overdressed or too underdressed.
My recommendation is typically what would be considered business casual.
Denim, sneakers, T-shirts, and similar casual attire are highly discouraged.
General Policies:
1. Drugs and intoxication are strictly prohibited in My space.
Although I do not mind sharing the occasional drink or a couple of glasses of wine with a client, or allowing a couple of drinks prior to a lunch or dinner package with Me, arriving overly intoxicated or under the influence of drugs is not allowed.
If I feel that you are too intoxicated or if I feel that you are under the influence of drugs, you will be asked to leave without a refund.
2. No means no.
I have a clear list of boundaries located on My Sessions page of My website.
If you request something and I say no, respect that answer. If you ask again, continue pushing, or attempt to cross My boundaries, you will be asked to leave immediately without a refund.
This includes grabbing, groping, touching Me inappropriately without permission, or any behavior that violates My boundaries.
3. Clothing Requests: I do not mind accepting some clothing requests; however, you may not request Me nude or request Me wearing nothing but a bra and panties.
I am a Dominatrix, not a stripper or lingerie model.
I always dress nicely and will wear what I feel best suits our session.
Some clothing requests are fine, such as requesting specific shoes, hosiery, gloves, skirts, pants, or other items based on your fetishes and what will suit our scene.
4. You are expected to be respectful during our session.
Respecting mutual consent and professional boundaries is essential for safety and creating a positive experience.
If you cannot be respectful, you will be asked to leave without a refund.
5. Anyone interested in a session with Me must be 21 years of age or older.
I do have the right to request identification upon your arrival if I feel that you may be under the age of 21.
6. Hygiene: I do request all submissives/clients to be clean and showered prior to arrival.
If you do not have time to do that, let Me know and I will be more than happy to allow you to use the shower facilities in My space.
I have full restroom and shower facilities available with fresh linens, toiletries, and necessities for your use.
7. I do not accept gift cards as a retainer.
Currently, the quickest and easiest way to pay your retainer/deposit and your Introduction Booking Call fee is via Venmo or Cash App.
If you are from outside of the country, there may be other possible options. Please keep in mind that I may require additional screening and there may be additional fees for consideration.
These options can be discussed via email at mindyourdomme@gmail.com.
Now prepare yourself to have an incredible session with Me!
On your knees!
Mistress Tiffany